Let's be realistic

I really love when people bring me pictures of the style they are going for. It prevents any miscommunication. There are a few things that need to be considered and discussed when using a picture as your guide. Please take into consideration the following points before setting your expectations too high.

• Most often I see pictures of celebrities brought in. This is not surprising since they tend to set the trend and many people aim to look like one themselves. Why is this an issue? I MIGHT be able to give you Jennifer Aniston's HAIR...but I can't give you the face and body too. Too often people are obsessed with the whole glamorized look and they don't realize even with the same exact hair, they won't walk out twins with Jennifer. 
• Rarely is your hair exactly compatible with the hair in the picture. Texture and density factor in quite a bit when it comes to achieving a certain style. I commonly see people with thin, fine hair bringing me pictures of people with thick, coarse hair or the other way around. You will not get the same results. You need to allow for some wiggle room, and consider styles that are flattering to your hair type.
• Look past the style and color to the actual CUT. Some styles are super eye catching. It is easy to say you want your hair exactly like the style in the picture, but sometimes when you look at the actual cut it might not be so appealing. It is also important to remember these pictures are usually from people that have a whole team helping them look fabulous for that picture. Consider how much time and effort you will want to put in each day and how it might look styled a different way. 
• Picture the style on YOU. Does is flatter your face? Will it draw attention to the right places? One size does not fit all when it comes to hair.
• Consider the color. If you are just matching your cut to a picture it might look very different with your color rather than the same color as the girl in the picture. Take time to think if you really like the style and cut, or just really want to be blond (or red, or brunette). If you are matching a color to a picture you also need to consider what you are starting with. Not all colors are safely possible in one sitting.

I am not trying to discourage pictures. I really do prefer when people have them! I just think too often people set themselves up for disappointment. So how do you avoid this? 

• Past pictures of yourself are always wonderful. That way you know it is possible and accurate. 
• Bring in a few pictures. Rarely do you ever love every single feature about a style. Don't be afraid to mix and match. 
• Consider the previous tips when using a celebrity photo.
• Always ask to be taught how to style your new do before you walk out the door of the salon. As my client, I want you to look great ALL the time, not just the day you get your hair done. I always like to teach how I am doing what I am doing so that you can do it yourself day after day. This will help immensely when trying to figure out a new style or trying to match a picture you like. 

So start the search for your perfect picture (or pictures). When you take it to your stylist just have a little chat and they will be sure to guide you in the right direction and work out a plan you are happy with.